Abby's Whispers Within

Over the weekend, I saw a show where people come to air their opinions on topics and there was one that really caught my attention and got me thinking as you all know, I can think for the whole world. LOL The concept of having a TYPE in a relationship is really something that has been on over the years but I want to believe it’s just an idea we all decide to glow with. While having a certain type of woman or man you’re attracted to or want to be in a relationship with is not a bad idea, I honestly think it has to do with patterns. You dated a fair, slim guy/ girl and you did it for 3 consecutive times so you just decide that’s the type of person you’re attracted to, it’s stuck in your head and that’s it. When I started this relationship thingy, I always tell myself it’s TALL, DARK AND BEARDED . I really do not mind if he’s chubby but he has to be taller than I am, dark and of course, beard geng! Well, I had one of the best relationship and longest with a man who was not too dark and h...

A wise woman once told me that "to forgive is to set a prisoner free" this simply means that when you forgive, you set yourself free as much as you set the one who did you wrong free. One thing you realize after forgiving is that you become happier and peaceful. The hate we build up in our heart due to unforgiveness clouds up our emotions and we don't get to see the beauty and light around us. While its okay to grieve as I won't even judge or teach anyone how to grieve because we grieve differently. Don't dwell too long on your grieve, don't let your grieve shut you out from the reality. Letting go is letting God fix you up and we all know DARK CLOUDS BECOMES HEAVEN'S FLOWERS WHEN KISSED BY LIGHT This piece is personal to me as its a part of my healing journey, lately I've decided to forgive and let go and its been beautiful. So try letting a prisoner go today by forgiving. 🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋 STAY BEAUTIFUL AS ALWAYS AND HAPPY AS YOU SHOULD

If there's anything adulthood has taught me, its that every action has a consequence. The consequence you get depend on the action you put in place. You don't just wake up and become the butterfly, growth is a process. Don't skip the process, embrace it. If I'm to give a 20 year old me a piece of advice, it would be Don't give up too easily Focus Never settle, aim high I always say I have no regrets and anything that happens happened for a reason but then I don't think I'm being completely honest, no matter how hard I try  to deny it there would always be regrets but the ability to move past them and be a better version should be the aim. There would always be consequences to every action we take, so pick your actions wisely so when the consequences comes knocking you'd embrace them and know its part of life and process. Is there any advice you'd love to give your younger self? comment and let's hear it. Remember, when there are choices, make the...

  Happy Workers' Day 😊 It's a new month starting with a holiday and the rain choose the perfect day to express its feelings, its been raining all morning. This month I've decided to spread my wings like a butterfly and radiate positivity, go for everything I desire, complete courses, learn new things, get better at old ones and have fun while at it. Just like the headline, I can't stop fighting for what I want. So my fellow butterfly friends, decide on one thing you want to get better at, one thing you want to know more about and dedicate to it this month and watch the universe align with you on that journey. Remember, you can be anything you desire to be, it starts with a decision. What comes to your mind after reading this piece? Allow me fly into your head so drop a comment and let's talk STAY BEAUTIFUL AS ALWAYS AND HAPPY AS YOU SHOULD. 🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋