Having someone you can open up to and tell your truth to is one of the best things you can do for yourself if you ask me.


I think there should be someone in your life who isn’t afraid to tell you the truth no matter how much it hurts, someone you can always run to whenever you’re low on charge and you need to refill. This person can be a friend, brother, sister, or lover. 


Just someone you can always talk to whenever there’s a win or loss.


I do have someone like that, I might not spill everything but at least to an extent because personally I hardly open up to people about things. 


Do you have a safe space in any human? What does it feels like to have one?


Here’s me sending butterflies 🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋 to everyone that’s in need of a safe space.


STAY BEAUTIFUL AS ALWAYS AND HAPPY AS YOU SHOULD.

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  1. Regardstohealth6 May 2024 at 03:17

    Sometimes it's quite hard to open up to people because you do not want to be a burden but yeah, finding a safe space in someone is really something good. I have quite a few trustworthy persons I run to, but on the long run, i recommend it being one's significant other in that way you can be rest assured that your vulnerability won't be used against you. 🦋🦋🦋

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