Abby's Whispers Within

  What's your definition of Kindness? In a world full of users, greedy and badly behaved individuals, If you're lucky enough to have a kind person in your corner, you're not lucky but blessed. Being kind goes beyond monetary value for me, it has to do with empathy, having soothing words for situations, being considerate and not trying to be even but rather choose goodness. Like love, kindness takes practice to understand and feel, I also believe kindness is a chain of reaction, all it needs is for one person to start. like the famous quote "Be the change you wish to see in the world" in all of these, start by being kind to yourself as you can't give what you don't have So moving forward this week, choose kindness, be kind to yourself and extent it to others. Here's some butterflies to set you free🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋 STAY BEAUTIFUL AS ALWAYS AND HAPPY AS YOU SHOULD.

Having someone you can open up to and tell your truth to is one of the best things you can do for yourself if you ask me. I think there should be someone in your life who isn’t afraid to tell you the truth no matter how much it hurts, someone you can always run to whenever you’re low on charge and you need to refill. This person can be a friend, brother, sister, or lover.  Just someone you can always talk to whenever there’s a win or loss. I do have someone like that, I might not spill everything but at least to an extent because personally I hardly open up to people about things.  Do you have a safe space in any human? What does it feels like to have one? Here’s me sending butterflies 🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋 to everyone that’s in need of a safe space. STAY BEAUTIFUL AS ALWAYS AND HAPPY AS YOU SHOULD.

If you know me personally, you'd know I'm an overthinker, I live in my head hence I get overwhelmed easily and lately I've had so much going on, so much to do and this has made me overwhelmed. Woke up this morning feeling so weak coupled with the fact that I had tension headache all through the night and I had a crazy chest pain so I barely slept. I was contemplating calling in sick at work or manage to go, in between I got a message from a one of my biggest cheerleader, I opened the message and the headline was "6 things mentally strong people do" the first one caught my attention and I didn't even bother to check the other 5 before I ran off to the bathroom to get ready for work. it says "THEY MOVE ON, THEY DONT WASTE TIME FEELING SORRY FOR THEMSELVES" While in the bathroom I was contemplating on this words, Do I really need to feel sorry for what I can't change or handle? instead I should get up move on to things I can accomplish for the day ...

 Hi there, Ever had an encounter with someone with a main character syndrome?  In my opinion, I think the difference between a narcissist and someone with MCS is the stability. this 2 set of people always find a way to make things about them talmbout greed, "I deserve this" attitude. One thing I've noticed about these people is that they really don't feel bad about what they do. In our society, empathy should really be the order of the day and we really need to stop enabling things that aren't right. Let me know if you've had an encounter with someone with MCS or probably a narcist before, I would really love to hear from you. Here's me sending butterflies your way to set you free and make you smile. 🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋 STAY BEAUTIFUL AS ALWAYS AND HAPPY AS YOU SHOULD.

  Hi guys, I'm new here but I've always wanted to do this. I don't know how I found myself here today because I've been postponing this for the longest time. I honestly don't want this to look like a blog but more of a note pad where I get to open up with what's in my head. I really wish for consistency and effort from my end on this new journey. So, here is me officially welcoming you to IN MY HEAD of LIFE OF ABBY PS, our fav emoji here is the butterfly🦋🦋